urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:lilhoniebearstephaniestephaniestephanie2009-01-14T06:37:21Zurn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:lilhoniebear:146275Can’t be.2009-01-14T06:37:21Z2009-01-14T06:37:21ZYou can't be friends with an ex-lover who deeply hurt you, after all these years I've finally realized this. Because friends do not hurt friends. When all have been said and done, the betrayal is still there, even if the pain is gone. It's better to lose that friendship rather than continually suffer from it.